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Common
Sexual Positions
There are no
right or wrong
ways to have
sex. But,
arguably, there
are some
techniques and
positions that
get your juices
flowing more
than others.
Having sex, or
sexual
intercourse,
refers to any
physical
intimacy between
people, but it
is commonly used
to describe the
insertion of the
erect male
member into the
female vagina.
Sex can be wild
and energetic,
or soft and
subtle which can
be performed in
a variety of
ways. The most
common sexual
positions are:
Missionary
Position: So
called because
of a story that
this sex
position was
taught by
Christian
missionaries as
the only
“proper” sex
position. The
woman lies on
her back, her
man on top. The
advantage of
this position is
that both
partners can see
each other eye
to eye. You can
have relatively
deep
penetrations
which can be
combined with
kissing and
caressing.
Though it
supposedly
produces the
quickest male
orgasm, it is a
bit
uncomfortable
for the woman
(with man’s
weight upon her)
and tiring for
the man (who
must support his
weight with his
arms and knees).
Doggy Style: Or in Latin,
coitus more
ferarum "sex in
the manner of
beasts." It is
similar with the
mating positions
of horses and
dogs, hence the
rather
animalistic
term. The man
penetrates her
woman from
behind, while
she crouches on
all fours,
facing down.
Although
penetration is
quite deep,
achieving
alignment takes
practice.
Cowgirl: Also
known as
woman-on-top, it
derives form the
image of a
cowgirl riding a
bucking bronco.
The man lies on
his back while
the woman is on
top of him, with
his body between
her legs. With
this position,
it is possible
for both parties
to see and
caress each
other. This time
the woman takes
control while
the man enjoys
the glorious
view from the
bottom.
Spoon: In this
position, the
man and the
woman lie side
by side, with
the woman’s back
pressed against
the man’s front.
The man guides
his penis into
her vagina from
the rear. There
is full-body
contact in this
position
allowing the
couple to cuddle
one another.
Although,
penetration is
quite shallow
and there is
little visual
stimulation for
either party.
69 Sex
Position: Also
known by its
French name
soixante-neuf.
The couple lie
on top of the
other
upside-down
(like the number
69), allowing
for simultaneous
oral sex.
Other sexual
positions
include sitting,
kneeling,
standing, and
non-penetration
or
low-penetration
sex, with the
penis stimulated
between legs,
thighs, breasts,
or armpits.
Try to mix and
match.
Experiment on
different
positions with
varying rates
and rhythms to
find out what
works for you
best. Keep the
fires of passion
burning alive by
adding new
excitements and
sexual surprises
that’ll keep you
and your partner
wanting for
more. |